And now for something different

How honest may I be? The girls say they want honest men, but they don't like the things men say when they're being honest.

I might fall in love with you. I would love to be that lucky. It's what I want. But I don't think it's likely. Why don't we have a fling and see what comes of it? Maybe a lasting relationship, maybe a short but enjoyable episode, maybe some help.

I retired at the start of 2007, as soon as I had enough income to live comfortably. I am basically a writer. This means I'm an introvert, not a party animal. I like to have fun now and then -- even too much fun -- but it's not my life. I am a kind and considerate lover. For all my faults, I try to be a good person, a gentleman. Most people seem to like me.

Having read a few profiles here, I suppose I should mention some other things you might not like: I am not simple -- too many miles for that; I am not god-fearing -- there is not much I am afraid of and certainly not the guy in the sky; I am not marriage-minded -- I have been married enough, although the thought of a lasting relationship is still my dream. Please have a photo if you expect a reply, and try to say something more than 'Hi!' Unless you're really, really cute.

I wish I could live in the Philippines, but my ex-wife presented me with a baby just as I was turning 60. Much to my surprise, he is my joy, and I won't leave him. That means I'm limited to twice-a-year trips. That may not sound like much, but who wants a guy around all the time anyway?

Romantic, sexy, giving, open, willing, cheerful, adventurous and intelligent. I'll settle for most of those if not all. A sense of humor would be nice.